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College = Parties, Sex, Drunk, Education, Fun? Tips please? 10 pts!? Okay so I'm going away to college next year. Its about 3 hours away from home and I need any tips that I can get.
What to bring? What not to bring? Car or no? How much to party? Do ppl really have sex at the parties? I drink, should I limit that? How much partying? Money. What not to spend on? What not to waste my money on. I know college guys sometimes are broke. I don't want to be buying stupid stuff. Teachers. Form a relationship with them? How? What to do if my roomie is annoying or if she has her bf over or something. What if my roomie is dirty!?!?! Omg! Should I jump right into sports and clubs in my first year or just chill? How to make friends? How much do I study? Just any tips on important and random stuff about college. Thanks. 10 point will be given to best answer. :) | What to bring?
The usual stuff. Clothes, Cell Phone, fridge, microwave.
What not to bring?
Don't bring a TV, video games, and only bring a computer that's just strong enough to do your research / homework.
Car or no?
Yes, bring your car if at all possible.
How much to party?
Keep it to the weekends, skip it if you can't keep up with your schoolwork.
Do ppl really have sex at the parties?
Oh yeah. good times.
I drink, should I limit that?
Keep it to 2 days a week maximum.
How much partying?
2 nights a week maximum.
Money. What not to spend on?
Whatever you do, don't get roped in by "student credit card offers". For the love of GOD do not sign up for any of those credit cards under any circumstances.
What not to waste my money on. I know college guys sometimes are broke. I don't want to be buying stupid stuff.
You can be the judge of that. Avoid designer clothes, jewelry, just skip that luxury stuff, you can pull off a great look without it.
Teachers. Form a relationship with them? How?
Sure. Best way to form a relationship is to show genuine interest in the topic, and talk about it after class with them... If you find stuff that relates to teh class independantly and show interest in it, they'll love you and almost certainly give you an A.
What to do if my roomie is annoying or if she has her bf over or something.
Just be direct, if you don't it leads to passive aggressive nonesense. If you have problems, just talk about them openly and directly, don't play games.
What if my roomie is dirty!?!?!
Discuss it with them directly.
Omg! Should I jump right into sports and clubs in my first year or just chill?
If that's what you enjoy doing, then sure, get involved right away!
How to make friends?
You'll make friends with the people in your dorm, and with the people you share activities with. Watch out for guys that "just want to be friends", they mostly are just waiting for you to get drunk so they can "accidentally" have sex with you. Be wary.
How much do I study?
Study a lot, it's why you're there. Get straight As. You can do it.
Just any tips on important and random stuff about college. Thanks. 10 point will be given to best answer. :)
If there's anything else you want to know, add me on messenger and I'll tell you everything I learned in 5 years of undergrad and 3 years of law school :)
Oh and if you can, get yourself a prescription for Adderrall, it makes collegiate live 1000 times easier. | Did i enjoy life as a apetheist,i used to live like you,few drugs,getting drunk at parties,sex with many? PARTNERS AND a few minor std's along the way and of course i, well,something,yes,no,i'm sorry can't remember anything else,what else could i do as an apetheist that i can't do being religious,help me memory has gone, because i remember life as non stop fun that i wouldn't change for anything
but now i quite often go and sit in the mosque(when prayers are not due)for 1or2 hours and feel so comfortable,relaxed,at peace,which to you would mean sitting in an empty room on the floor alone for 2 hours,yawn,alhamdulillah | | Title: "My 'life' as a zombie". Congrats. | Fraternity Party & Drunk sex: How do I get this girl? I got drunk at a frat party yesterday and made out with a girl (that I've never known before) all night long. I'm normally a shy person, but when I get drunk, I feel at ease.
Anyways, we ended up having the most wild, heart throbbing, sex I've ever had in my entire life. The sex was SO damn good that I want to develop a relationship with this girl. I see her on campus and she ACTS LIKE I DIDN'T EVEN EXIST!
I called her cell phone and she never answers.
She's in my english lit class and she acts like nothing happend.
What the hell? How do I get this girl? Why is she acting so weird? | | I don't think that it is a good way to start a relationship based on sex. Sex should be part of the relationship and not the main aspect. It doesn't sound to be that you want a relationship, but someone who you are compatible with in bed. | Is drunk sex considered rape if both parties are drunk? What if the girl never said "No" but was conscious and very able to speak? The next day she says she was raped because she feels that she was too impaired to consent and felt he took advantage of her.
Hypothetical scenario so I'm OK with brutal honesty. All opinions welcome. | I don't buy into this drunk sex being rape. It is called regret sex. Even when I've (rarely) been that impaired, I've always known when someone is touching me and whether my clothes are on or not.
Unless a woman is passed out, she is going to figure out if a guy is trying to put some part of his body inside hers. | From a drunk party: sex or not? what SHOULD i have done? What now? how do i return things to normal? weirdass coincidence, i met this girl i really love at this party, she knows i like her but nothing has happened between us so its arkward, after awhile were both hella drunk and i find myself grinding with her, at the conclusion of the party i find myself taking her home; shes really drunk, and yes dont criticize 4 the drunk driving, she insist we have sex. it was more sexy then just a simple "lets have sex" but thats not wat your here 4.so me being me and not as drunk, says no and say sumthing like really, this is your 1st time so lets wait until your sober this is pretty big, so yeah i drop her off and go home hating myself. so we are both virgins, i'd figure it would have been great.but keep in mind nothing has happened between us, were almost 2 strangers practically, now im unsure if she remembers but its arkward being around her now, she does weird things when im around now though | | you did the right thing, that's what it call respect to someone you admire or love. Nothing to regret!!! | Sex with drunk girl... At college parties...Wrong? Do you think its wrong to have sex with a drunk girl at a party,even though she isnt completely trashed??? | | If you think her judgment is impaired you shouldn't because that qualifies as rape. Honestly, besides it being the right thing to do (even if you don't care about not violating someone else- would you want someone doing that to you, your mom, sister, brother, whatever?...because that can happen to anyone) you have a better chance of getting more and frankly, better sex since it is sober, if you aren't going around raping people. | Parties, drinking, sex, etc. are those big part of colleges? like you see in some movies? 1),,
2) are parrenst usually worried when their guyren go to colleges?
3)how often do they come home from the colleges?
4)what is it like really, to be a college student in the U.S? | College is what you make of it. I did not see it. Yes there were some parties. Drinking and drugs were not blanket. I think parents are worried about their guys leaving home. I came homw all of the time on the weekends because I lived 30 minutes away. I worked and would bring my laundry home where it did not cost a fortune. I only lived on campus one year as it was too expensive. I went to school with someone from the opposite coast. He went home for Christmas and in the summer. Other people went home only on the holidays and spring break.
You are in college to get an education. You go to class, you study, you work some, and maybe on Saturday night you go out. It is not what you see on tv or in the movies. | What does this weird dream about getting drunk/partying/sex mean? I dreamed that I went to my friend's in my school uniform (I'm a grade 9 girl in high school right now) and she invited me to a party and I went and I was wasted, grinding and making out with strangers, and I left and these guys dumped water on me cause we were water fighting and I was with a guy and we were touching and the apartment below my friend's caught on fire and the police stopped me and the guy and took him to prison but I ran away and I ran to my friend's apartment and my religion techer (female, unattractive) was there telling me I'm good people and then I saw this stranger, and we just started making out, and we fell onto the bed and then we started having sex and I was still pretty drunk and then I woke up...not wet, not horny, not...anything really. when I was dreaming, it felt really real though...Weird...What does that mean? | | That wasn't a dream. | Why do White men always try to sex me when I get drunk at parties? I go to a lot of house parties, and I'll enter the room and its whatever. Then, some guys will stare at me through the night, like they want me to know that they're interested or whatever. Then, by the time the vodka, shots, jungle juice and so many other drinks are into my system, these guys always swoop in and try to have sex with me! It scares me because I'm always the only Black chick at these parties, and I always get harrased. They grab my butt when we're dancing like they've never seen a round butt before! Omg. Its terrible. Always. Just because I'm drunk and can barely stand up doesn't mean I'm open game for sex.
So, I talked to my cousin and she invited me to a Black party in the "hood", lol. The guys would talk to me, and then make fun of my "white girl accent" and it was not fun at all, but they were into the hoodrat looking girls only! They like the girls with weaves who drink alize or whatever that ghetto crap is called. It was weird.
This happens most Saturday and Friday nights, what can I do to stop this? The White guys harass me and the Black guys make fun of me!
I'm not guyding either, I'm no troll. (you said I was from my last question, I'm not) | | stop getting sloppy drunk and maybe you'll notice a difference when it seems you have some class about yourself theyll notice it to |
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